And here I thought I knew my wife's reactions down cold. When I brought up the fact that I was still looking at finding a counsellor, and wanted her to look at who I thought might be good her response was "Are you still planning on leaving me?" I may have the actual words a little off, it could have been less definite than that, but geez, I didn't know that I'd been that negative in tone when we spoke about this last.
I guess she knows the extent of my feeling on this, though it doesn't seem affect our relationship in any overt way. I don't really get it. In any case it should make it interesting in seeing where she goes when counselling starts. It's been a while since my wife's surprised me like that.
The second thing was her comment today about something trivial - we were bickering (not arguing, just joking around) about where we keep some stuff in the kitchen, and she asked me if it was something that the counsellor would help us with.
A joke. About counselling.
Does this mean that she's accepted it? Is trying to come to terms with it? or was it just a joke?
my mind is whirling with over analysis
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